How could the insanity have started already

Isn’t it amazing how this happens:

People tend to accept my er, less than sociable or conventional ways and most have given up trying to change me.

Then I announce I’m getting married.

Suddenly everyone (well, not everyone, but a surprising number) wants me to have a wedding their way, which includes covering up my tattoos.

Most of these people have known me for long enough, and are well aware that I’m a contrary, stubborn little cow, especially when told what to do. So ‘cover up your tattoos’ is more likely to get me into a halter top than long sleeves — unless, of course, there is some clever reverse reverse psychology going on, where I might do what they want because it’s what they least expect.

I just wanted to write that nonsense down because it amuses me.

8 Comments

  1. Oh, Andrea. ;) You do know that, although the wedding should be about you, it'll end up really being about your guests, right? :)

    Congrats again. And do what you want. ;)

    Comment by Maria — 23 April 2008 @ 4:14 pm

  2. I have only made one compromise, and it was a reasonable one, so I'm done compromising!

    Comment by Andrea — 23 April 2008 @ 5:02 pm

  3. no way man! i reckon there is nothing foxier than wedding dress with tattoos. offbeatbride.com is the place for non-traditional brides, i tells ya.

    Comment by shauna — 23 April 2008 @ 5:53 pm

  4. mrs dont let anyone make any decision and if the body art is to be on display then quality. Nowt wrang with a tatt, heres my personal wedding favourite:
    http://modblog.bmezine.com/wp-content/uploads/200…

    hee hee

    x

    Comment by Taylor — 24 April 2008 @ 1:53 am

  5. Hell, just do whatever you want. The wedding is about the bride, the bride, the bride.

    If anyone grumbles, ask them 'are you the bride'?

    Comment by Jerry — 24 April 2008 @ 4:58 am

  6. hey b, thanks… I like those tattoos, too!

    jerry, my favourite comeback i think will be 'are you paying for this?'

    Comment by andrea — 24 April 2008 @ 11:07 am

  7. Body paint the wedding dress on…? Work with the tats…

    Make for a great talking point at the reception!

    Comment by Tutu — 25 April 2008 @ 5:27 am

  8. Congrats young lady and young man. I'm thinking a special tatt for the day could be in order? Somewhere prominent??

    Comment by Boo — 28 April 2008 @ 7:11 am

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